Stay Informed

When a child is born he or she is completely dependent on their caregivers to teach them about what it means to be a human being. Children need to develop close attachments with a parent who they can trust to take care of their every need. If a child is not properly stimulated and cared for, they will grow to see the world as a cold and uninviting place. Parents are disengaged with their children; while victims are often solely concerned with self-survival and abusers focusing on maintaining control and power, children are left behind. Children develop low self-esteem, engaging in sibling violence and anti-social behavior. If there is a constant violence in their life, they can develop behavior problems and health issues in response to their environment. Behaviors and health issues include:

Behaviors & Health Issues:

• Abuse drugs/alcohol
• Aggression/anger/hostility
• Belief in rigid stereotypes and gender privilege
• Clinging to parents or teachers
• Depression
• Eating problems
• Engage in delinquent behavior
• Feeling responsible for the family
• Fear and anxiety
• Low self-esteem
• Poor conflict resolution skills
• Poor peer, sibling and social relationships
• Poor school performance
• Running away from home
• Sleeping problems (bed wetting & nightmares)

The sooner the child is away from the violence, the sooner they can begin a healing process. The Marjaree Mason Center has a variety of classes, facilities, and individuals who are dedicated to helping children through this healing process. If you and your family, or the family of a loved one is experiencing domestic violence call Marjaree Mason Center’s 24 hour confidential hotline at 559.233.HELP (4357).